Sex Toys for Couples

How to Choose a Sex Toy Gift for a Couple

A couples gift works best when both people feel included. Think about what you already enjoy together and pick something that adds to it rather than replacing anything.

Remote-control and wearable vibes

Panty vibrators, vibrating eggs and bullets with a remote let one partner hand over the controls, which builds anticipation during a date night at home. Check the charging method and remote type on each listing.

Vibrating cock rings

A vibrating ring adds clitoral vibration during penetration while helping him feel firmer. Stretchy silicone is the easiest fit; limit wear to 20 to 30 minutes at a time.

Light bondage and sensation play

Under-the-bed restraints, plush handcuffs, a blindfold and a feather tickler are an approachable start. Agree on a safe word before you begin, keep restraints loose enough to slide two fingers under, and never leave a restrained partner alone.

Massage

Massage candles and gels make slow, full-body touch easy, and they are the gentlest option for a couple who has never shopped for toys together. Drip candles made for wax play are different from ordinary household candles: only use candles sold for skin or wax play, follow the label and test the temperature on your wrist first.

Lube

Keep a water-based lube nearby. It works with silicone toys and condoms and cleans up easily.

Giving it

If the gift is for your own partner, talk about it first or give it in private so it feels like an invitation, not pressure. Every order ships in a plain box, and US orders of $85 or more ship free.