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Position Aids

Better angles, fewer cramps, more encores.

Sex position aids make the good stuff easier, deeper and more comfortable.

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About Position Aids

Sex position aids make the good stuff easier, deeper and more comfortable. Browse love cushions and wedges in small to XL, bondage cushions with restraint points, an inflatable position pillow, padded thigh slings, doggy style straps and bed restraint systems. They lift, angle and support, so you can focus on each other instead of your knees.

How to choose sex position aids

Types of position aids

  • Love cushions and wedges: firm, angled pillows that lift and tilt the hips. Smaller cushions give a subtle lift; XL cushions support more of the body for bigger angle changes.
  • Bondage cushions: wedges with built-in attachment points for cuffs, combining support with restraint.
  • Inflatable pillows: lightweight and packable, so you can adjust firmness and take them on trips.
  • Thigh slings: padded straps that loop behind the neck and thighs to hold legs up and open without tiring muscles.
  • Doggy style straps: a padded band around the hips or thighs with handles for the partner behind, adding control and leverage.
  • Bed restraint systems and spreader bars: hold limbs in place while keeping the receiving partner comfortable.

What to consider

  • Firmness: dense foam holds its shape under body weight; inflatable aids let you fine-tune.
  • Size and angle: taller wedges create steeper angles. If you are unsure, start with a mid-size cushion.
  • Cover: wipeable or washable covers make cleanup easier. Check the product details.
  • Travel and storage: inflatable pillows deflate flat for suitcases and drawers, while foam cushions keep their shape best when stored where they will not be squashed.
  • Effort: straps and slings shift effort from your muscles to the gear, so you can hold a position longer without tiring.
  • Padding: for straps and slings, look for wide, padded sections where they rest on the neck or thighs.

How to use sex position aids

  • Missionary upgrade: slide a wedge under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle and take pressure off the lower back.
  • Rear entry: drape over a cushion face-down for support, or add a doggy style strap so the partner behind has handles.
  • Oral sex: a wedge raises the hips so the giving partner does not have to strain their neck.
  • Legs up: a thigh sling holds legs open and up with no effort. Keep the padded strap across the back of the neck and shoulders, never over the throat.
  • Toy play: some cushions hold a toy in place for hands-free fun.

Combine position aids with restraints for gentle bondage, and agree on a safe word, check circulation and never leave a restrained partner alone. For more support options, explore sex swings and bondage furniture, add cuffs and restraints, or browse more ideas in couples play. Our article on a healthy sex life has more ways to keep things exciting.

Care and cleaning

  • Lay a towel over cushions during play for easy cleanup.
  • Wipe surfaces with a damp cloth and mild soap; machine wash removable covers only if the label allows.
  • Water-based lube is easiest to remove from fabric. Silicone and oil-based lubes can stain. Stock up in personal lubricants.
  • Let inflatable pillows dry fully before deflating and storing.
  • Store foam cushions away from direct sunlight to keep them firm.