Remote Control Vibrators

How to choose remote control vibrators

A remote control vibrator pairs a toy with a wireless remote, so speed and pattern can be changed without touching the toy itself. That makes them ideal for hands-free solo play, long-distance teasing in the same room and playful power exchange. Use the Remote or app control filter across our vibrator collections to see every option. For our favorites, read the top remote control vibrators: a complete guide.

Pick your toy type

• Eggs and bullets: small, wearable and great for teasing. Browse egg vibrators.
• Panty vibrators: sit in your underwear for external clitoral stimulation. See panty vibrators.
• Vibrating dildos: let a partner control the vibration during penetrative play.
• Butt plugs and prostate toys: wearable anal toys with a flared base and a remote, including playful tail plugs. New to anal? Start with our anal toys guide and collection.

Remote range and controls

Wireless remotes differ in range. Basic remotes work best within a few feet, which is perfect for the bedroom; longer-range remotes suit play across a room or a restaurant table. Check the product description for range, and keep in mind walls and bodies can shorten it. Also look at how many speeds and patterns are available, and whether the remote has a clear on/off button you can find in the dark.

Material, power and noise

Choose body-safe silicone where possible, since it is non-porous and easy to clean. Most remote vibrators are rechargeable; remember to charge both the toy and the remote if it has its own battery. If you plan to play in public, a quiet motor and lower settings help keep things between you.

How to use a remote control vibrator

• Agree on the rules first: who holds the remote, any limits, and a signal to stop.
• Test the remote range at home before heading out.
• Use water-based lube for any insertable toy, and make sure wearable toys are secure and comfortable.
• Start on the lowest setting and let the anticipation do half the work.
• For anal toys, always use one with a flared base, plenty of lube and a slow start.

Remote toys are a natural fit for couples play, whether that is foreplay that starts at dinner or a game of who can hold out longest.

Cleaning and lube compatibility

• Wash the toy before and after every use with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner. Keep the remote dry; it is usually not waterproof even if the toy is.
• Use water-based lube with silicone toys. Silicone-based lube can damage silicone surfaces.
• Clean anal toys thoroughly before any other use, and never move a toy from anal to vaginal play without washing it.
• Store the toy and remote together so neither goes missing.

Every remote control vibrator ships in a plain, unbranded box, and US orders of $85 or more ship free.