Male Toys

How to Choose Male Sex Toys

Male sex toys cover a lot of ground. Start with the sensation you want, then narrow it down by size, material and features.

Popular categories

• Masturbators and strokers: textured sleeves for solo play, from simple manual strokers to automatic, vibrating models.
• Cock rings: worn at the base to help maintain firmness and intensify sensation; vibrating rings add buzz for both partners.
• Prostate massagers: curved toys that target the P-spot for a different kind of orgasm.
• Penis sleeves and extenders: add length, girth or texture for partnered play.
• Penis pumps: vacuum cylinders that draw blood in for temporary fullness and sensation.

Material

• Silicone: non-porous, durable and easy to clean. Look for body-safe silicone.
• TPE and skin-like blends: soft and realistic, common in strokers, but porous, so clean and dry carefully.
• Stainless steel: non-porous and weighty, used in some rings and chastity devices.

Power and features

Manual toys are simple and quiet. Rechargeable and remote-controlled toys add vibration, suction or thrusting. Use the Power and Waterproof filters to find shower-friendly options.

Male toy checklist

• Solo or partnered: strokers are mostly for solo play, while rings and sleeves shine with a partner.
• Size and fit: stretchy rings and sleeves fit the widest range of bodies; measure before buying fixed-size items.
• Noise and discretion: manual toys are silent; powered toys vary in volume.
• Ease of cleaning: open-ended and non-porous toys are quickest to clean and dry.
• Budget: start with an affordable stroker or ring, then invest in powered toys once you know what you like.

Not sure where to begin? A stretchy silicone cock ring and a manual stroker make a great first pair, and both work well with a good water-based lube.

How to Use Male Toys

• Use plenty of water-based lube with strokers, sleeves and anal toys.
• For cock rings, start with a stretchy one and remove it after about 30 minutes or immediately if you feel pain, numbness or coldness.
• For anything anal, use a toy with a flared base and go slowly.
• Read the instructions for pumps and start with low pressure.

Want a deeper dive? Read the ultimate guide to male masturbators or how to use a cock ring.

Care, Cleaning and Lube Compatibility

Clean every toy before and after use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Let soft strokers dry completely, inside and out, before storing.

• Water-based lube: safe with every material.
• Silicone lube: don't use it on silicone toys.
• Oil-based lube: degrades latex condoms and can damage soft materials.

Every order ships in a plain, unbranded box, and your billing statement shows the business name. US orders of $85+ ship free, so it is easy to build a collection of male sex toys that suits you, one great find at a time.