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Possession Stainless Steel Locking Collar - XL

$139.95
Material
Metal
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  • 30-day returns on unopened items in original packaging.

Product details

The Possession Stainless Steel Locking Collar is a slim, elegant band of nickel-free stainless steel that locks with an included hex key. It can be worn for short scenes or long-term, and it is subtle enough to pass as jewelry. This XL size has a 17.6 inch inner circumference. It suits submissives in committed D/s dynamics and anyone who loves the look of a steel collar.

How it feels

Cool, smooth and pleasantly weighty, it settles around your neck as a quiet, constant reminder of who you belong to. Once it clicks into place, there is a lovely sense of being claimed every time you feel it against your skin.

Specs

Inner circumference 17.6 in (44.75 cm)
Band width 0.3 in
Lock Hex key, included
Material Stainless steel, nickel-free
Color Silver
Size XL

How to use it

  • Measure your neck first; the inner circumference is fixed at 17.6 inches.
  • Close the collar and lock it with the hex key, then keep the key somewhere both of you can reach quickly.
  • Check that you can breathe and swallow comfortably and that the fit is not tight.

Cleaning and care

Wash with soap and water, even while you wear it in the shower. For a deeper clean once it is off, the maker says you can boil it in hot water. It is a symbolic collar, not a rated suspension point, so never use it to pull or bear weight.

Good to know

  • Ships in a plain box.
  • Free US shipping on orders from $85; $6 standard shipping (5–7 business days) below that.
  • 30-day returns on unopened items.

FAQ

What size is the XL collar?

It has a 17.6 inch (44.75 cm) inner circumference and a 0.3 inch band.

Can I wear it for a long time?

The maker says it can be worn for short scenes or long term, such as weeks or months.

Is it nickel-free?

Yes. It is nickel-free stainless steel.

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Shipping and returns

Shipping: We ship to US addresses only. Standard shipping (5–7 business days) is $6, and free on orders of $85 or more. Faster options are shown at checkout. Every order ships in a plain, unbranded box.

Returns: Unopened items in their original packaging can be returned within 30 days of delivery. Opened items can't be returned for hygiene reasons. If something arrives damaged or defective, contact us within 30 days and we'll replace it or refund you. Read the full return policy.

Questions before you buy?

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Collar and leash FAQ

Any safety basics before we play?
Agree on limits and a safe word (or a safe signal if speech is restricted) before you start. Never leave a restrained partner alone, check circulation often, and keep blunt-tip safety shears nearby for anything that buckles or ties.
Which lube should I use with it?
Anything goes: water-based, silicone or hybrid lube are all safe on glass and stainless steel. Silicone lube lasts longest.
How do I clean it?
Wash with warm water and a mild, fragrance-free soap or toy cleaner before and after use, then let it air-dry and store it in a clean pouch.
How discreet is shipping?
Every order ships in a plain, unbranded box, and your card statement shows our business name, not what you bought.
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